Ask Alexis: How to tell someone you like them?

                
                 When receiving questions like these, they are hard to answer. Because the reason why is because I stop liking people, cause I know that I can never have them.  I didn't know how to answer it. I told myself that I will never have a crush on someone or even like them, because it to hard for me. First of all, they don't know that I exist. I also don't fit the criteria of what they are looking for in a partner. I will always be camouflage for them until the right person comes along. Also the other reason why I don't like someone is because I will always wondered who they are with. What they are doing? Who are they talking to. I will always wondered. Every time I like someone they are living in a different state, which is hard. I try liking many someone's, I even try making myself noticeable to them, but it didn't get anywhere, except hate. Hated the fact that I try to tell these someone's that I am here. Now I find myself doing the same thing, I need to stop beating myself up with these liking. For one thing, this person does not know that I exist and don't even know that I'm alive, just someone who posts comments on their page. So I decided that I am going to unfollow them and leave them alone. This person won't know that I'm gone. They don't even know that I exist. 

Ms. Alexis,
    I have been feeling kinda down lately. I was wondering how can I tell someone that I like them. I have a fear of being rejected. I am looking for some help. Please help me.
                xoxo Anonymous

                 I learn along the way that the easiest way to tell someone that you like them, is by being friends with them. (1) Be friends with them. Then check to see if they are dating someone first or maybe even like someone. Sometimes that could be hard when it comes to certain people.  (2) Get to know them. Find out what they like. Find out what they are into. What there favorite place is. (3) The easiest way for you is to be friends or even get to know them, is be friends with their friends or friend. Stalk this person a little bit, just don't go extreme stalking. (4) Send them cards or letters. Be their secret admirer. Just don't be an extreme admirer. (5) the easiest, but to me the hardest, just introduce yourself to that person. Be polite. Be kind. Say hi.  So when liking someone, make sure that they know that you exist. .....

Did you like anyone in school or now maybe? Please write in the comments below.
xoxo
Alexis