Ask Alexis: How To Deal with Unnecessary Drama?

This one was hard to answer because I always deal with unnecessary drama. Either I got a tattoo on my forehead that reads, please come fuck with me, I like it or it comes because other people are jealous. Why be jealous? What is the reason for the drama? What is the reason to start drama that does not need to be created? Why can’t we all get along? Is this world not big enough for everyone to share or is it just because the person just wants to be a bitch. Well then go ahead and be one. There is no light at the end of the tunnel, just losing everything that you thought you built. I always try to ignore it, then I always find my way stepping into the bitch zone, Sorry I get into this from my mother. But the older I get, I say fuck it, If you want to play baby games, go ahead and play, I'm done. I am not going to play anything, except go about my day. 

Dear Alexis, 

Hi, I am writing to you, because I have a problem dealing with drama. I have no idea how it began or how it happened. How would you deal with unnecessary drama? 

From - Unresponsive. 

I have always heard to kill them with kindness. But with me, that is like a pill that is too hard for me even to swallow. I will just go and comfort the person and say what the fuck is your problem with me and when they still don't answer me, it is always either they are jealous of you because you could be the type of person that can get everything, just by working toward it or they have like you and they can’t express their feeling to you or about the situation. All I can say is ignored it or you can try to comfort the person about the problem. I can guarantee that you might not get an answer. So just try to ignore it, usually, people tend to get tired because you are not fighting back. Just let it go. I hope this helps. 

You are having unnecessary drama? What happened and what was the outcome? Please leave comments below. 

xoxo  Alexis