Dating Series: Getting To Know Me!

I have never been the kind of girl, who plasters herself all over social media saying that I’m single. I never like anyone knowing my business. I like my secrets. I have been single for almost 8 years. I decided to stay single to give myself a breather. After being in a smothering relationship it was what I wanted. After all the shit that I went through with my ex-partner, I wanted a calm, steady single life. I kept that. Now I am thinking that I would like to date again, but sometimes I think to myself and wonder, do I really want to, or do I just want to stay single? I just don’t want to be pressured into things that I don't want to do. There are a lot of guys on Facebook that love to pressure me into going out with them. To be honest, I am not the type of girl who is going to jump and say yes, especially when I have not talked to you for long. They always want to talk me out of Michigan. I am not leaving my state, just to meet someone. I am going to be honest, it is sweet that these men talk to me. I like it. I also don't appreciate it when these men create a fantasy about me. It's another reason why I am skeptical about dating because you don’t always know what you are getting. It's the reason why I didn’t like joining dating sites, which that series is coming up. 

I know what I want when it comes to a relationship. I want someone who is going to go on an adventure with me. Who is spontaneous, and who is basically up for anything? I am looking for someone who is loyal, who likes affection, and who won’t play any games, where I have to chase them. But most of all I am looking for someone who can make me happy. Question is that person out there? To be honest, I don’t think there is anyone. I am not the type of girl who likes to be bored or who likes to do the same thing over and over again. I am not. I like to try new things. So I am that type of girl. I am not the one who is gonna flirt, well I have done plenty of times, but it has gotten me nowhere. Sometimes, I wonder what I look like. I may not be a blonde, pencil-thin, or better yet look like a slut.  I am just a simple girl who collects butterflies, snowflakes, and seashells. I am a gothic girl who loves her spiders and skulls with her favorite color being black, with a mix of blue (Sapphire Blue), dark pink, and grey. My sign is the Archer also known as Sagittarius. I love Fall Scenery, my date night would be walking through the most beautiful fall scenery there holding hands with my partner. My other favorite is Winter, holding hands when the first snowfall throws snowballs at each other. I don’t have a preference on who I date, women or men, as long as I get treated right. I am the type of girl who likes to work out, even though I have not worked out for so long, at least I am getting back into it. I love the smell of coffee in the morning and being able to drink it. 

What type of partner do you look for in a relationship? Please comment below. 

xoxo  Alexis