Let's talk about Love Languages!
I decided to do some searching on this Love Language. I have been seeing some people talking about it. Love Languages has been out for at least 29 years. Its been talked about since 1992. I have never heard about it until now. So I decided to do some searching and found some quizzes for single people since that is what I am. After doing some quizzes, I started to do some thinking and wonder if am I that type of person. I know I am not that bad in relationships. Then again someone never really gave me the time or day to be the type of person that I should be to them, then again I think it is because I never really dated someone to whom I can give my time. I have always been someone mistress or someone camouflaged until they find the person that they are really looking for and it is not me.
When I took the quiz, there were some questions that I didn't like and some didn't fit me. After taking the quiz and I got my results, it claims that my primary love language is Quality time, it is not Relationships I already knew that since I did. But when it comes to Receiving gifts that were a big no-no for me, I got a 0%, which I already knew as well. They didn't have good questions for Acts of Service, for which I got a 17%, I know when I find someone I will probably be better at it than the 17% that I got. Regarding words of affirmation and Physical touch, I got 23% on both, but I can guarantee that it much larger percentage than the ones that they ask.
In reality, do I really need to take a quiz to actually know what my love language is, no I don't? I probably going to be alone for the rest of my life, because no one is out there for me, no one feels what I feel and also I am very stubborn. I got my heart broken more times than anybody and it actually pretty hard to find someone, for one thing, I don't fit the criteria of them. I am not what they are looking for. Knowing that these love languages actually exist should not be a reason to know what you can do for someone or for yourself. You should automatically know what type of quality you have and should know what you can do for someone. These quizzes are fun to do, but they don't declare the type of person I am and what I like to do with someone.
I love spending quality time with my special someone ( even when I find my special someone), and I love physical touch at least I know that my person cares about me. I love words of affirmation at least my person is taking the time to talk to me, writing me, texting me. I wanna feel that I am wanted by my person. I wanna know that I am the first thing on their mind when they get up in the morning. I love acts of service because I love cooking for my person. I also like surprising my person with a home cook meal, even if we are together for a few months. I also like to help them with their chores so that way we can get them done a lot quicker so I can spend time with them. My least favorite and wish it didn't exist is receiving gifts, this one is not my favorite, I do not like this one. I wish I can erase it because it means nothing. I probably get ask about this the reason why I don't like receiving gifts is that I got a surprise that I wish wasn't true. The person that I dated for almost 6 years decided to cheat on me. So to the end of me talking about myself. What are your love languages?
What type of Love Languages do you use or try to use? Have you fallen flat on your love languages?
xoxo
Alexis
