Forgiveness: What Does it mean to you?

When it comes to forgiveness, I have a hard time forgiving someone, when they hurt me. They say forgive but never forget. See with me that is a problem because I can’t forgive and I can’t forget. What has been done to me, there is no going back. I will keep both of my eyes open and my back will never be turned. I will always be on the alert when it comes to people. I like to forgive people, but how do I know if they are faking their friendship or how do I know they are going back and telling their friends crap.  I am not the kind that people can fool with, once I catch you, you are done with. 

I am going, to be honest, when I decided to delete everyone that did not talk to me on Facebook, I deleted one person that I did not know that I hurt, I did not know how much I hurt this person, cause this person does not want to talk to me about anything, instead they talk to their friends, like why, I am the person you should be talking to, not them. The saying goes if you can’t talk to me, then don’t talk against me. Do I forgive this person, maybe yes and maybe no. The truth to be known. Yes, I forgive this person, and yes this person will never know. It is hard to define this person, cause they are hard-headed. Now I know why they say that Aquarius and Sagittarius are compatible with one another. 

Truth be told, my forgiveness can only go so far. When you hurt someone learned to say sorry, when you can, and when someone hurts you, I guess learned to forgive and move on. Being angry over something will never have a place in your heart. Just forgive and move on. I can forgive, but I will never be the same. My heart will never be the same. The memory and the heartache that someone put me through it will always sit there, waiting for it to happen again. So beware. 

Never listen to little birdies, in the long run, they are the jealous ones who trying to get brownies points and it is a shame that we all can’t be friends. So in the long run, what is done is done. All I can do is look for the future and what it holds. 

What does forgiveness mean to you? Have you forgiven someone? Please your experiences in the comments below.